In the month of December, there seems to be a never-ending list of things to do and places we need to be. We often try to cram things in to ensure we're doing it all and seeing it all. As a result, December can be a stressful time for individuals and families. There are Christmas concerts at school, shopping, baking, sending out cards, etc. This year, pull out some of the stress that the season may bring by doing the following:
1. Say 'No' and 'Yes' - Between all the company parties, school activities and family get-togethers, trying to fit it all in can be tricky. Be realistic about your time and the effect it has on your family. Being out every night of the week is not good for families with school-aged kids. As you receive invitations to outings, check your calendar first. First, ensure there are no conflicts. Secondly, do not fill in every open spot on your calendar. Ask yourself if the event is adding value to you and your family. Say 'yes' to the activities you truly enjoy, and politely say, 'no' to the ones that you could do without.
2. Delegate - Have you ever heard, 'If it's not done my way, then I'll just have to do it myself." The reality is: if you want it done your way, and only your way, then you are going to be the one to do it! Let go of some of the perfectionism and allow people to help. It is not a bad reflection of your housekeeping if you get a cleaning company to do a 'once over' on your home before company arrives. It's not a bad reflection on you if you hire a personal chef to do your baking! Perhaps your spouse does not clean the bathroom like you may. So what! It's time to let that go. If you are lucky, you can often delegate within your own home. Other times, it's well worth the money to hire help to do the work!
3. Be Financially Responsible - Every family has their own budget. Avoid the temptation of running out to the store to get all those great sale items every time you receive a flyer. As you may or may not be aware, buying items is eventually going to create clutter. Clutter takes up space, time and energy and costs money! What's important to remember around this time of year is to work within your budget. Set a budget and stick to it!
Wishing you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Sheri Bruneau is the owner of Get It Together Inc. and is a Professional Organizer. Information about Get It Together Inc. can be found at http://www.get-it-together.ca/
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